Christian Real Estate Professionals

Loving the HELL Out Of Your Enemies

Do you have enemies?  OF COURSE you do... they are everywhere... even in the Rain!  Seriously, Active Rain?  Really?  NO!!!  Couldn't be... for we are a group of professionals seeking to get our brand out to the public!  We work TOGETHER don't we?  We LOVE one another.... there are NO haters here!!!

Upon closer examination, you will find that PEOPLE THEMSELVES are not haters....a human is not your enemy.... a person is just a body, a shell, a container, a conveyor, and that's all.  It's what is allowed to fester inwardly that is the poison!  In simple infantile language.... it's WHAT YOU ARE FULL OF!

Whatever you're grubbing upon will surface.... and whoever is in the path will get a hearty dosage of it!  It has NO respecter of people and will be spewed upon anything that moves!  Now, it has NO AFFECT on vessels who have been drinking out of the same vat!  They'd cancel each other out, resulting in immunity to these death throes.

Ever go pass someone who's full of it?  You know not to get too close.... for they seek a target to spill it out upon!  It's become their everyday language now, and their original purpose is no longer detected, for contamination has set in.  To think it only began with a tiny drop... it grew as it festered.

How does this happen... and what can be done?  It happens when the vessel allows a root to set in... like an uncontested weed.... (a weed will REIGN and become a tree... IF you don't pull it out).  What will dislodge it is... FORGIVENESS.  Is it that simple?  Yes.  You see, hatred reigns when a vessel places himself/herself as JUDGE over the perceived slights of others and REFUSE to show them any mercy and are offended by decisions they made that are contrary to what they believe.  They have entered into a pact with the real enemy to blame and not forgive!

The hater then becomes entrapped in his/her own cocoon... tasting of, and even reveling in their own vomit!  Their lifelong pursuit then alters to a new ambition.... "HATE RECRUITER"!!  Armed with this venom, the new cadets that join themselves are fed with this same toxicity.  WHOA!!  It has come to that??  YES!

If YOU are the target, you cannot escape from these fiery darts, however, you can love the hell out of that container!  You'd have to get the strategy of LOVE... which is stronger than hate!  You must use wisdom, to know how and when to apply it.  And one more thing.... THIS CANNOT BE DONE IN YOUR OWN STRENGTH OR YOU WILL GET CLOBBERED!!!  There is a STRONGER ONE than you that needs to be IN your vessel!  Eat and drink of that vine first.... continually.... then you will become empowered!

If YOU are the one carrying this hate, and recognize yourself, know this.... you are forgiven.  You no longer have to be tormented by the lies you were bound by.  TIP OVER!  That's it.... spill it all out, and allow those tears to flow freely.  Your deliverer has come with HIS WORD of release.  It's for YOU! You can no longer carry this.  It has alienated you.  You are not the enemy!  The real enemy has manipulated your anger to fuel you.  It's one of his devices used to steal your joy, kill your spirit, and destroy you from living an abundant life!   

Not to worry.... HIS LOVE will cover.   TIP OVER.... and fall into HIS ARMS.  HE paid for this so YOU wouldn't have to.  For this purpose HE was sent... just receive... open the door to your heart.

There's something waiting for you.

There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.

 

© Copyright 2009 Diane Rice, All rights reserved

22 comments • Diane Rice, SFR • October 10 2009 11:26AM

Do You Really Have to Forgive and Forget?

My good friend here in the Rain, Steve Kappre made a great remark on my Sunday God First post earlier today about Forgive and Forget. I'd love to take this opportunity to share with you a thought-provoking statement and challenge you to see if you see it in the same light,

Do you really have to forgive and forget? Can you really forget to forgive?

I attended a Relationship workshop with my husband over the weekend at our church. It was based on biblical principles but the topics he talked about really applies to everyone, not only at the church.

He said, People often say, "Forgive and Forget".

And he went on to say, if you forget, then why is there a need to forgive? Hmmmmm..... think about it for a few seconds. How true is that?

Forgiveness is a choice, just like loving someone is a choice. Everyone can love those who love us, but not everyone can love those not-so-easy to love.

Forgiveness is also a process. It's a journey that gets better everyday when you begin the healing process. It must start with you. And if you dont begin the process soon, the only person you keep hurting yourself is you.

We are constantly in relationships, whether we like it or not. We never live alone. I have people in my life that have left negative marks in my life. But this week, I really want to take the ugly out and deal with them. Some that I no longer think about on a daily basis, but it still affects me when I think about it. Some that are still relatively new that I'm still feeling from the pain and then, some that I take around here to joke and whine about, like my Referral Screening Really Goes Both Ways post. Then, some that I just build minor grudges against when I wrote my large tax bill, thinking that it's going to go down the drain with another Bailout plan.

I really never thought about Forgiving and Forgetting this way. It really does not work hand-in-hand. If you can forget, there is no need to forgive. Yet another great observation that I really needed to bring to your attention.

Put this in your business. Have a lender, appraiser, co-worker, stager, etc. (ie everyone else but you) messed up one of your really needed to close transaction? Have you built a wall against them so you could hurt no more?

How you treat those who have wronged you really makes you the extraordinary person that you are.

 

 

 

 

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Do You Really Have to Forgive and Forget?

26 comments • Loreena Yeo, Realtor®| Frisco TX Community Advocate (214)783-2210 • May 03 2009 08:39PM